Monday, May 12, 2008

Be Committed to Lifelong Learning

Open Our Hearts in Abundance
Delivered By: Lloyd D. Newell

We live in a competitive culture. Most of the time it takes the form of harmless fun—we enjoy sporting events, board games, and other contests that pit one against another. But when a competitive spirit invades our daily lives and our relationships with others, it can lead to feelings of jealousy, resentment, and self-doubt.Those who have found true peace have learned to step off the merry-go-round of competition. It’s not easy—quick fixes seldom work. But there are a few things we can do, a few truths we can remember, that can make a difference in our life and in our heart.Not long ago, a learned professor needed to have some plumbing work done in his home. He was amazed at how much the plumber knew about pipes—and how little he, with all his academic training, knew about the subject. No one knows everything about every topic; it’s not possible—or even necessary, if we’re willing to work with instead of against each other. We each have areas of strength and expertise. Search for yours, and then build on them.Be committed to lifelong learning. Instead of competing with others, learn from them, appreciate them. You can always expand your knowledge, develop a skill, and share a talent. This can open your heart to others and create a sense of humility, as you learn that everyone you meet can teach you something you didn’t know.When we’re tempted to compare ourselves to others, it helps to remember that we never know the whole story of anyone’s life. All we can do is love, be patient, and be kind. We’re all in this together, and we need each other.In sports, there can be only one winner, and in order for one to win, everyone else has to lose. But life doesn’t have to be that way. Truly, we can all win when we open our hearts in abundance to others.

6 comments:

Bart said...

No doubt about it, there is always something new to learn, and something we can share, and something we can become by learning and doing more.

Ellie McFreaken said...

Megan....Isn't this message awesome? I think our society of women would be so much happier if we truly embraced this.

~heidi said...

What a great message. I love the Music and the Spoken Word Messages. This a great reminder that everyone we meet can teach us something, not matter how big or small. I loved the sentence, "When we’re tempted to compare ourselves to others, it helps to remember that we never know the whole story of anyone’s life."
Thanks for sharing this message.

meegz said...

Ang-- yes especially our specific culture. We have a tendency to try to "out-do" others instead of embracing. WHY??? THANKS for posting this so I could be reminded.:)
Heidi -- my mission president told me "Whenever you compare yourself to anyone you will ALWAYS be devestated." SO TRUE!! Compare should really be a bad word....same as stupid, fart, skinny, fat, shut-up (my poor kids can't say anything around here:))

ShelleyG said...

Thanks for this good message and reminder. This was a very appropriate post for me as a few days ago I was talking with some women and mentioned that I was so NOT good at what we were doing (It was decorating--I am much better at copying). One woman tried to console me and say 'oh sure you are'. I had to laugh a little because I was OK with letting someone else be great at that skill--I still got to enjoy it by being a part of the group. I have to admit it has taken lots of years to get to that as we are a culture where everything is a competition. Thanks again

Anonymous said...

Amen...again...Amen (as Elle would say)